It's about making them feel safe in their skin, confident in their body, empowered in their choices and heard in their concerns.
It's about communicating with them with your entire body and making them feel loved in that manner.
It's also about the things you do before, during and after that make this primal act just a little bit more loving.
Amongst the many little yet meaningful ways you could do, we're going to talk about just one for the time being: breast kissing.
It's as the name suggests — the giving partner focuses their touch on the receiving partner's breasts and stimulating them with love and in some cases, passion, before, during and after sex.
And yet, not a lot of people do it — even Mashable would agree — because our brains are wired to immediately seek out the end goal which is penetration and orgasm.
Which is the perfect time to remind you that while that is something we can strive for, we must also relish in the journey it takes to get to that point.
Because from the same Mashable article, breast play is important because it significantly helps bring your partner to orgasm. That's because not everybody is able to come from penetration alone and need an extra hand or two to warm them up and push them close to the edge.
Plus, paying attention to your partner's breasts can also be a scintillating visual stimulation, according to Cosmopolitan. That's because its natural shape and contour can be inviting to the eye of a romantic partner. Not just that, its soft texture somewhat serves as a trigger for the dirty part of your mind to imagine many things to do to your receiving partner, leading to a night full of touching, squeezing and filling them up.
With the understanding of how important it is to pay attention to what's in front of you (see what we did there?), allow us to show you the six breast kissing positions that will leave you and your partner feeling oh-so loved from head to toe:
Cowgirl on a Chair
As the name suggests, the giving partner sits on a stool, chair or a couch and has a receiving partner sit on their lap. Whether or not there is penetration going on, make sure that you are stimulating the lower region while you make out with their breasts. You can try to run your chess against them, kiss them all over their nipples, or maybe even use your tongue to run circles around the pectoral muscles, right down to the erect bud before giving it a good bite. If you need a partner in this sexy crime, then Alvina can fill in that spot perfectly! She's a clit-licking tongue vibrator that can go with the rocky yet tasty motions.
Orgasm Generator
If you want to take it up a notch, then you can transfer to a couch or chair that has armrests so your partner can carefully place both of their legs over it. This position requires a bit more flexibility so if your partner hasn't done splits in a while then this is a chance for both of you to practice in order to use your muscles to effectively hold yourselves up while doing intercourse and breast play. This is perfect for those moments where the receiving partner is feeling quite wild yet submissive at the same time. The giving partner can take this chance to pleasure them while having their own way as well. If you want a triple threat, then add ELDA to the mix as it's a g-spot tapping rabbit vibrator that can serve as the master penetrator when needed.
Captivity
This takes being feral to a whole new dimension because this requires the giving partner to sit at the edge of the bed while they have the receiving partner leaning back on their lap, almost at a flat angle. The giving partner holds the receiving partner by the waist and feasts on their breasts as if they are laid as the star of a five-star meal course. This is perfect if either or both of you are feeling like the breasts need a little more loving than usual, and need it with the quickness of a hungry person. Whenever you need the extra vibration into this ground-shaking position, BIBI can bring the earth-shattering moans as a remote control wearable vibrator.
Spanish Guitar
This is a sensual vixen waiting to be played with just a few strums of a tongue because the giving partner has the receiving partner sideways on their lap and they stimulate their breasts as if they're playing the receiving partner like a guitar — ultimately playing a song only you should hear and would remember for many more nights to come. This is a hit for couples who want a little salsa spice to their breast play and imagine the riveting sound of an acoustic guitar dictating your every sexy move. If you need an additional instrument to play your sexy song, then Lili can help you – all hands-free because she's an app-controlled egg vibrator. So making your partner sing is as easy as tapping a button.
Ladyboy
This is for the receiving partners who're feeling extra dominant today because this position puts you on top of your giving partner and pulling both of your genitals flush against each other as you grind or fuck while the giving partner motorboats their way across your breasts. This is dirty and fun — the best combo in any sex scenario. This is also amazing if you're the type to bounce on your partner's cock or strap so that your breasts could bounce against their face.
Spork
Last but not the least, this one is similar to spooning but the receiving partner is lying flat on their back, creating an interesting angle that allows the giving partner to penetrate and please their partner's breasts while getting a good stretch out of it as well. Sylvia can be the perfect dessert to this meal of a position because she's a tongue-licking rose vibrator that won't fail to lick every drop of juice that's going to come out of your partner.
Conclusion
And there you have it! These are the six best positions for breast kissing that you can (and should) try as soon as possible because not only will this turn the tables in terms of your sex life, but it will also add just that little bit of an extra touch to make your partner feel loved in the sexiest way.